Sunday, April 18, 2010

A tat for you?

Okay, my brother's best friend's brother... (did you follow that?) has a college math professor who every year teaches his students several equations that are vital to passing his class.  One of them, he goes so far as to joke with the students and tell them that they might as well tattoo it on their arm... it's that vital that they know it.  Well, Phillip did.... inside of one of the tattoos already on his arm.  It's not very noticible to the average person taking a quick glance, but useable, nonetheless.  When Phillip showed the professor, he was speechless.  He told Phillip that he'd been telling students that for 20 years and no one has ever done it.

My initial reaction was a smile and "wow..." but after I started thinking about it, over the last 20 years there probably weren't many college students with lots of tattoos as the "norm".  Sure, there were several who had a few small ones here and there- usually covered up but none you could hide the quadratic formula inside virtually unnoticed... on the forearm.


I was going to leave this subject alone, but when I heard this story, it really made me think.

I've heard it said that we live in a bubble here in Western Oklahoma... in a small farming community in the heart of the wheat belt and the heart of the Bible belt... i.e. I live in an area pretty sheltered by social norms of the big cities or the coasts.  Recently, my friend circle was in a discussion about tattoos and how we view them personally.  Several wanted to label them as sinful.  Others were okay with them, but would never get one themselves.  Some have one and have regretted it some later.  Some just didn't like them.  I can understand the regret; it's pretty much for life.  I can go with the "it's okay for you but not for me" thought, but I just can stand behind the belief that it's a sin.   Yes, I hear you.  I know it's in the Bible.  Leviticus 19:28 says Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD.  In this passage God is instructing the Israelites to refrain from pagan rituals of the people living around them at the time.  Did you realize that it also says just 9 verses earlier in verse 19 Do not wear clothing woven of two kinds of material. You know what that means don't you?  All of us wearing our 50/50 cotton/poly  blends are sinners, too, if we take every law handed down to the Israelites literally.  I'm sorry.  You can't pick and choose.  The good news is that we, Christians don't live under that law anymore.  Jesus came to fulfill the law and release us from the 613 Old Testament laws were part of God's plan to prove that we humans are unable to keep the law, laws, rules, etc.. on our own and therefore we needed a Savior.

Look at Gal 3:23-35 Before this faith came, we were held prisoners by the law, locked up until faith should be revealed. So the law was put in charge to lead us to Christ that we might be justified by faith. Now that faith has come, we are no longer under the supervision of the law.

This Savior talked and taught about many subjects during his earthly ministry... even 9 of the 10 commandments (excluding the Sabbeth). Jesus' greatest two commandments were love your God... and love your neighbor as yourself... in knowing Jesus and loving Jesus, it would be assumed then that our intent would be to live to please him and serve him. In order to please and serve someone, one must know them very well to know how to choose for them. Therefore all his teachings would be learned to know his heart, personality, and preferences....I think we have a hard time with just following two rules that seem so easy. Actually they are so hard. It requires us to think every single day and act every single day. We must constantly be evaluating our actions objectively and making adjustments to keep God above all and everything else in balance.  That said, I do not believe that Jesus ever addressed tattoos or dismissed them.

But, because I live in this "bubble", honestly, seeing men and women who are heavily tattooed where it is highly visible still shocks me a little as do body piercings beyond earlobes.  I think it affects me this way because 1.  I'm trying so hard to act "normal", but  2.  I'm curious to look, and  3.  I'm wondering "why did this individual decide to do this?" all the while, 4.  trying not to pass judgment and 5.  not be discovered that I am initially uncomfortable because of the tattoos or piercings.  I know.  It sounds ridiculous, doesn't it?  I actually have a couple cousins who are normal, functioning people with lots of tattoos.  I have a male cousin with earrings who is also a completely normal heterosexual, and several of my friends have tattoos.  I also have a cousin in prison for murder and to my knowledge, he has no piercings or tattoos. 

So where do I stand on this subject?  Do I have one- no.  Do I consider it sin- no.  Do I want one- no.  Do I want my kids to get one- no, but it is my job as a parent to tell them that and then to give them all the information available to help them make an objective decision when the time comes. Times are changing everywhere outside my bubble, and slowly my bubble is being invaded by more and more social norms from across the country.  Inside my bubble, business owners still won't hire employees with visible tattoos and body piercing must be removed during working hours.  Inside my bubble, most locals still look down on these things and judge those with tattoos and body piercings as inappropriate or even as sinful.

4 comments:

  1. You may find it interesting to know that anyone who ministers "deliverance" has to deal with tattoos from a spiritual perspective. Not all tattoos, but many. So, like everything else that we do and say, the "spirit" behind it is often more important than the actual "act".

    God was addressing the "spirit" of the man who would pierce and tattoo himself. He was addressing which "god" that person served. This is how they identified themselves. You can surely see people who are pierced/tattooed who don't have the wrong "spirit" about them today. Likewise, you can see people who identify the "god" they serve by their piercing/tattoos and mode of dress.

    The sin is an issue of the heart, which makes the wisdom of the Old Testament "laws" still valid. Whom do we serve and how do we advertise that to the world at large?

    I'm just sayin'... ;-)

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  2. Oh, yes. I agree with you Kathryn. This would be some of the discussion I would have with my children if they ever wanted a tattoo.

    It always comes back to the condition of our hearts, doesn't it? Our motives, intentions and ambitions....

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  3. I hadn't gotten over to read your blog, Roshelle, until Mom told me that I needed to. :) I'm glad now that I did.

    Tattooing has become a bigger deal in my life than I ever thought it would be. Sean and I both went and got each other's initials in the year after we got married and I have just recently gotten one on my wrist as a personal memorial. For me it's a way of expressing feelings and keeping memories close. I know that my mom doesn't understand or agree with it, but it's not being done in an attitude of spite or as a way to jab at her and I think she knows that. For the most part I try to keep 'real life' in view when I consider a new tattoo, and I don’t ever want to be so covered that one tattoo fades into another and they lose meaning to me. I did address the one on my wrist at work before I got it done. Thankfully the job that I hold now is in a grace-filled place and no one even notices that it's there or that it's new. I’m okay with the fact that I may have to cover it later to get a job and I made the choice to get it knowing that possibility existed. I'm glad that people in the church are starting to understand that while some people get tattoos as a way to show who they are serving, others are simply doing it as a kind of permanent jewelry, so to speak. I know that my heart is clear about the art that I display and I hope that when people look at me they don’t see only ink and ignore the rest of me.

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  4. I'm so happy you shared Steph!

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